We attended story time at our local library yesterday morning. The librarian read three Easter books to the children. We sang songs, and even got a take-home craft. Then we chose some books to bring home to enjoy at our leisure. Some of my best tax dollars at work!
The public library is one of my “happy places!” I can go and sit quietly in a corner and plan a meal from the wall of cookbooks, work on curriculum in the non-fiction section, find new ways to get organized, or even find a book to read just for fun. Where else can you get a CD of your favorite music to play as you clean house, pick up a book on CD for the car ride this weekend, and get travel ideas from the internet, newspapers, or magazines? When I go by myself, I can spend hours just exploring.
They also offer book lists for reading ideas, family programs for free, town hall meetings, and you can look for something new for your family library at the book sale. You may find a reading program which awards prizes for reading. Often sponsored by businesses, you can possibly earn fast food, small amounts of cash, books, or other things as an incentive for reading. This can be especially helpful for reluctant readers, or to simply keep things fun. Sign up as a family!
Librarians are a gold-mine of information. They can help you or your children search out favorite topics or find a new fascination. You can get help locating a much desired book locally or through inter-library loan. (Not sure what that is? They can tell you.) They are well-read, and often more than happy to work with children who are well-mannered. *True story-when my eldest got her driver’s license, the next person she wanted to show after Grandma was the local librarian, Rosemarie. When Rosemarie retired, we were all sad.
Just a few things to keep in mind when you go:
- Learn and practice library etiquette. Soft voices, no running or chasing, keep the books off the floor, return books to their appropriate places, etc. It is habit that will help your children for years to come.
- Leave technology at home. No need for anything requiring earplugs. Turn your phone off (or at least put it on vibrate), and take conversations outside. Enjoy the world of hard copies!
- The library is not a museum. If there is a book you really like or refer to regularly, buy it. The inventory will change according to public demand. If you are the only person who checks that item out, it may be weeded out to make room for more popular titles.
- Pay your fines! Everyone has them from time to time. I hear librarians often have them too. Think of it as a donation to the library.
- If you check out an item and find that it is damaged, bring it to their attention as soon as you can or the next time you are there. They will appreciate it, and it will save future frustration for someone else.
- If it is a nice day, take snacks. Eat them OUTSIDE the library. Children are generally better behaved when fed.
- If you use the computers, remember you are in a public place. Keep any passwords or account numbers hidden and fully exit any browsers you use.
- We would often try to visit the library when it was fairly empty. If you avoid story time and go when school is in session, you will often have the children’s section almost to yourself.
When my children were school-aged, we established a routine for the library.
Everyone helped return books coming back, then they could look for what they were interested in finding IF they told me where they were headed. I required the following: a chapter book (if they were 8 or older), a science book, and a history book they had not read before, and a book just for fun. If they wanted to check out more beyond that, they could. I always checked the piles before we left for anything I was unwilling to take home or allow them to read. The librarians aren’t meant to be censors; you need to be.
The public library can be a wonderful place to spend time as a family, or on your own. If you haven’t been there in a while, go see what you are missing. If you attend frequently, good for you. There is always something new to discover!