Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved.
– Helen Keller
This life is a testing ground. As we raise our families, we need to remember that our job is not to avoid every storm, but rather, to prepare ourselves and each other to meet them. Every person of great strength and integrity I have ever known has become who they are by standing firm and facing what life throws their way. And those who are best at this are the most joyful people I know.
Some of the challenges I see around me include large families, couples who want more children but have been unable to bear them, military deployments, health challenges, financial problems, children with learning difficulties, and too-much-to-do-too-little-time. I don’t know anyone who has an easy life. If we are looking for one, we will miss so many of the greatest lessons we can learn in this life.
There are challenges which may enter our life through the poor choices of others, but they need never define who we are or what we can accomplish. Our goals, habits, and pursuits are up to us. I have chosen to become the woman God sees in me regardless of what others do, and I hope to be able to give that gift those with whom I come in contact.
We can do hard things.