There is an oft-repeated story of a young child who keeps falling out of bed. When his parents inquire what the problem seems to be, he responds, “I wasn’t in all the way.” This observation applies to so much of life!
If you are experiencing difficulties with home organization or finances, it may be helpful to examine your level of commitment to being organized or living within a budget. If you are only committed to an idea, you may find that achieving your goal is harder than anticipated. Decide if you actually want it, get a plan together, and then stick with it!
Wanting to be healthier can only succeed if you are willing to walk more and drive less, or snack on veggies rather than chips! Living on take-out or restaurant meals may be simpler than learning to cook, but it can sabotage any success you hope to have.
Probably the area with the longest lasting effects for “climbing in all the way” is parenting. Choosing to become a full-time mom, hence a one-income family works better if both parents are on board with the idea. Raising well-behaved, respectful children is much easier if both parents have the same goal, and are willing to spend time learning what it takes to get there. Homeschooling requires dedication, commitment, and follow-through. If you can’t stand the idea of spending a few hours a day focusing on your children (and only your children), you may find homeschooling a chore rather than a joy.
Conversely, the happiest people I know (and the ones I love to be around) are the ones who have grabbed on with both hands and are in for the long haul. They are exactly who they are, and they stick with what they set out to accomplish. They don’t waste time living in the past or wishing time away- they are too busy living now.
Decide where you would like to be in a year. Five years. Twenty. What road should you be on right now to get you there? Then start. Detours happen, but don’t lose sight of the end goal! You can do hard things!