Sometimes you hear that stay-at-home mothers are lacking in ambition. *exasperated sigh* Due to circumstances beyond my control, I have not been able to stay home for a while. What did I learn (or learn again) about staying home? Here is a smattering:
- Sleeping in your own bed is a blessing I take for granted WAY too often!
- I can cook meals that feed our bodies and souls with real ingredients…and love. That is hard to do without a kitchen! Eating out or just grabbing a quick bite is hard on our health, budget, and nerves.
- Spending time with family is best done daily. Too many special trips, extra goodies, or just being out of touch is tough on husbands, kids, grandparents, and everyone else. Nothing beats routine, regular time together. Touch base with those you love only on the days you brush your teeth.
- Slow and steady really does win the race! I can’t cram all the prep, planning, cleaning, and teaching into a few hours per week. My home is cleaner, my body is more responsive, and my heart is more peaceful when I focus on hearth, home, and the things the Lord put me here to do.
- It is cheaper to be home and doing than to be out and about..in just about everyone way!
- I am a better wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, and friend when I stop being “busy” and I give attention to the things that matter most.
- My mind is sharper when I take time for me. Prayer, scripture study, time to meditate, and exercise are essential for mental clarity. Those are most easily done at home.
- When I can’t stay home, I need to use that opportunity to reflect on the blessings that are so often overlooked, and give thanks for all that is mine when I can.
I realize not everyone has the ability to be home, and that I and my daughters are blessed to have husbands and family that support and encourage the moms to be with their children, but how easy it can be to get distracted and trade the things of greatest worth for a mess of pottage!
Today I choose to stay home.