“The true economy of housekeeping is gathering up the fragments so nothing is lost.” Mrs. Lydia Childs The American Frugal Housewife
One of the challenges of the 21st century is the seeming need for two incomes and the ever-increasing need for there to be a full-time parent in the home. This challenge can be met; it just requires some careful budgeting and a willingness to look at things a bit differently.
One strategy we used to stretch what we had was to live by the adage:
Use it up. Wear it out.
Make it do or do without.
There are so many items we regularly toss into the garbage/recycling which could meet some of our needs if we look more closely at them. Consider the following:
- Cereal bag liners are made from restaurant grade wax paper. Anything you would use wax paper (or sometimes plastic wrap) is free in your cereal box.
- The bottom 2 inches of a milk jug makes a handy plunger saucer. When it needs replacing, you can easily find another one!
- Old calendars often have artwork that can be framed (second-hand frames, of course) and mounted in your home.
- Shoe boxes make great storage for pictures, and your children’s treasures.
- Old cotton t-shirts make some of the best cleaning rags you will ever find.
- You can make magazine holders from cereal boxes.
- Yard sale season is almost upon us. Start your list, pray about it, and off you go!
- Second hand sweaters can be unraveled for yarn if you knit.
- Save a nice pair of jeans or two and a couple shirts for each child to wear in public. They don’t need a closet full of new clothes. Just a few to look presentable in as you are out and about. They can wear their favorite, old, possibly holey clothes at home.. Change out of public wear when you get back from errands, etc.
- Cheap shampoo makes some of the best bathroom cleaner. It is made to cut through the oil in our hair, so bathtub rings, tacky sinks, and even ring-around-the-collar is no match! Add baking or washing soda if you want something a tad more abrasive.
- Want to redecorate? Remove everything from a room or two. Reintroduce things to new places. Group like items as you decorate to make focal points. You can get a new room or two without spending a dime.
- Open-ended toys are often the best. Wooden blocks (look for a shop or cabinet maker locally. They make have scraps you can use to create your own set). Legos. Dolls (make your own clothes, furniture, etc.). Balls and other sports equipment. Child-friendly cleaning and cooking tools.
- Apple and orange boxes from your local grocery make great storage boxed for your children clothes that are too small (and waiting for the next child), or too big (and waiting for them to grow).
- Go to the park, or local nature walk area for lunch. Take a picnic you all helped create. Have a great day as a family without entrance fees, or expensive souvenirs. Take lots of pictures!
- Visit a second-hand store to purchase board games and puzzles. Use them for fun family nights. Pop some popcorn, make a batch of cookies, or some hot chocolate, and enjoy time with each other. Invite your children’s friends, and get to know them as well. No electronics needed!
- Books are great things to find second-hand. Great information, stories, and craft ideas for pennies on the dollar. Cook books for your scratch cooking adventures. Enjoy!
- Gather perennials starts from friends to landscape your yard. If you offer to help with yard work, you can often glean great plants for free.
- Use cardboard egg cartons for planting your tender vegetable starts. Each cup hold one of two seeds. By the time they are big enough to plant outside, the egg carton cups come apart easily.
- Plant those things which give back. Fruit trees, berry bushes, grape vines, etc. are fun to use for landscaping, change with each season, and feed your family. Win!
- Reuse old headboards, ladders, and such for decorative trellising. They are sturdy, add visual interest, and it keeps them out of the landfill.
- Keep things clean. Order and organization helps you make better use of what you have, and can make staying home a more pleasant alternative to shopping. If your kitchen is clean, you are more likely to be able to cook in it. If your family room is orderly, it invites people to use it. This is a co-operative effort for the entire family.
- Learning about interior decorating, the up-coming fashions, make-up and hair, and other creative outlets gives you the ability to save money without feeling as though you are decades behind everyone else. Find what you love, and use it!
There are thousands of ways to reuse things, or find them at a discount so that you don’t need to go purchase new at high prices. Second-hand shopping and yard sales can provide great finds for cheap. Google thrift, tightwad, reuse, or cheap for a lifetime of ideas of ways to save money, and still provide what your family needs. Make saving money a family adventure rather than feeling deprived because of your budget. Attitude and creativity make all the difference!
Some of my favorite books on this subject are:
The Tightwad Gazette by Amy Dacyzyn
Living More With Less by Doris Longacre
Money Secrets of the Amish by Lorilee Craker
A Simple Choice by Deborah Taylor-Hough
Beating the High Cost of Eating by Barbara Salsbury
How to Survive Without a Salary by Charles Long